It’s hard when you’re in love with someone but they seem far out of reach, isn’t it? Or when you want someone back in your life, but you can’t tell whether they want the same or not.
It’s common for you to feel desperate, stuck, and even depressed when such things happen. But it doesn’t have to be that way. You can literally attract them into your life with the help of your energy and vibrations.
In this blog, we’ll be discussing how to make someone not just be in love with you but madly in love with you. So keep reading to find out.
Law of attraction to manifest love... How to Make Someone Madly in Love With You
Maybe this is an ex that you’re trying to attract, or maybe a crush you’ve never been in a relationship with, or someone you’ve just got on a date with. It can be anyone. What we’re going to discuss today will work in all kinds of scenarios.
Also, it isn’t as hard as you made it to be, neither does it take 1 or 2 years to attract someone. It can happen in a few days, weeks, or even minutes. Sounds interesting? Then let’s begin.
1. Get out of the desperate energy
So one of the first things you have to do in order to get into the feeling of deserving love is getting out of the desperate energy that you’re currently in.
Feeling of desperation towards something concretes the fact that you lack it. And whenever we’re in a feeling of lack, we tend to fixate on it which ultimately creates more lack.
If you want this person to adore you, to be obsessed with you, and want to be with you, then you have to step out of your current desperate energy and create a sense of abundance.
So how do we do that? Well, we stop trying so hard. Ever noticed when you try too hard to get something, it starts getting more out of reach. It is because when you try too hard for something, the energy you’re creating is of lack & anxiousness.
Instead of trying and trying harder, what you wanna do is freely let it come to you, like a magnet attracting another magnet. When you’re trying to manifest something in your life, it’s best to exercise no control over the result and just let it happen at the right time.
2. Change your “go-to statement”
So what is a “go-to statement”? Let me ask you one thing, what is the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of this person you wanna attract? Take a moment and think about it.
Is it something positive? Or a negative statement like- “Why haven’t they texted me yet?”, or “Why don’t they wanna be with me”, or “I bet they’re off with some other person doing this amazing thing”.
Whenever we think of someone, we have a go-to-first statement, and usually, it’s something negative or about lack, especially in the case of the person we wanna attract.
What you wanna do instead is change your negative go-to statement to something better and empowering. Something that is more in line with what you want to receive.
For example, when you think about this person the next time, instead of going with your regular negative statement, go with something more positive like- “Maybe they’re thinking of me right now”, or “What if they’re thinking of calling me right now”.
The reason you wanna reframe your statement as a “maybe” is because if you say a bold statement like “They’re thinking of me right now”, it might feel like a lie. And you don’t wanna have a statement that feels like a lie. “Maybe”, “What if”, “Possibly” etc. gives you a feeling of curiosity and feels more approachable and possible.
3. Be aware of your thoughts
Your tomorrows are going to be based on whatever the foundation is that you’re giving out right now. You give out energy by thinking thoughts, making judgments, making statements on what you think is possible for them and you.
And I can bet that you give out lots and lots of thoughts about this person daily, and it’s hard not to do so because, of course, they’re important to you.
That’s why if I ask you to forget them right now, you’re gonna be thinking of forgetting them all the time, which ultimately means thinking about them again.
So it doesn’t make sense to try to forget them but when you think of them, be mindful of your thoughts. Be aware of what statements you’re making in your mind. Your thoughts and statement should be empowering and strong, or at least suggest the possibility of something strong.
People, when they fail to attract someone in their life, usually have negative thoughts like- “Why haven’t they called me”, or “They are happy in their life, they don’t need me”, and all sort of stuff. What you wanna do instead is be aware of your thoughts and change them to some positive statements.
Remember, it is not about controlling or micromanaging your thoughts, it is just being aware of what is coming into your mind and then reshaping it to support more of what you want.
For example, you sent them a text message and they don’t respond. You don’t want the first thing that comes into the mind to be like- “Oh, they don’t care”, “they’re ignoring me”. Instead, change it to be something like- “Oh, they might be busy, they’ll get back to me soon”. See the difference? Exactly.
4. The Energy You Give Out is What is Going to Shape Your Tomorrow.
At last, I just want to drive this point home. The energy you give out today is what is going to shape your tomorrow. So try to choose your energy and thoughts carefully, wisely, and bravely. Do not try to force the process and don’t doubt it, and it’s gonna pay off.