Does the idea of someone special begging to be with you fascinate you? But when you think about it with your logical mind, it seems too good to be true, and even impossible.
Well, I’m here to tell you that it is indeed possible to make this person beg for you, to make them want you, make them want to be with you with all their heart.
If you’re interested in learning how to make someone want you, and not just want you but BEG to be with you, then read this blog post till the very end, and let’s dive right in.
How to Use the Law of Attraction to Manifest Someone
If you don’t know what the law of attraction is, in simple words, it states that the thoughts and energy you give out today is what you attract for tomorrow. If your dominant thoughts are about lack & desperation, you’ll attract more of it in the future, and if they are about abundance, you’ll attract more of the same.
So how do you use this to manifest a specific person? Well, a common misconception about the law of attraction is that it’s some sort of procedure that you sit & do, which is absolutely wrong!
Whether you realize it or not, you’re always using the law of attraction to manifest the things you are focusing on the most.
That means if you want to start having the law of attraction to work for you, then all you want to do is focus more on what you want in a daydream like way. This is called the conscious use of the law of attraction.
In this blog, we’ll be discussing the specific things you need to do, and the things you need to avoid in order to make this specific person beg to be with you using the conscious use of the law of attraction.
Ask, Believe, Receive
Ask for it, believe that you deserve it, and you shall receive. Seems too simple? Because it IS super simple.
We tend to complicate things a lot because on a subconscious level, we think that the harder or more complicated the process is, the better it is.
When something is simple and just handed over to us easily, we tend to not appreciate it and value it as much because we subconsciously doubt its authenticity.
What you need to do is change this narrow way of thinking and realize that it is those simple & small things in life that bring in the biggest changes.
So, how do you properly ask the universe for this person? Well, asking is simply thinking about them in a daydream like state. Thinking thoughts that spark curiosity in your mind, for example, “wouldn’t it be lovely to be with them” or “what if they said these beautiful things” or “how would I react if they say they wanna be with me”. Whatever your dream is, you can fill in the blanks.
Don’t have thoughts like “why am I still not with them” or “why isn’t it working” because all these thoughts don’t go with the idea & feel of them being with you.
Do not get attached to these thoughts and think that they all HAVE to come true, just love the idea of “what if”. When you can think about your desires without attachment, that’s when they come into your life.
Now, you don’t want to think about them 24/7, and you definitely don’t want to say to yourself things like, “what if it doesn’t work?” or “what am I doing wrong?” or things like that. Instead, just do your thing and focus on living in the end result.
Live in the End Result
So you want to focus on living in the end result, but what exactly is living in the result and how do you do that?
Well, living in the end result is saying to yourself, “Okay, so if I was with them, and they were begging to want to see me, what would I be doing right now?”.
Think about it, if you were the person your crush is begging to be with, then what you would be doing in your daily life, what kind of goals you would be working on, what would occupy your time?
Because right now, if you’re trying to attract a specific person, a lot of your time and energy is probably going on that, meaning the vibrations you’re currently in is of want and lack of that person.
When you live in the end result by behaving as you’ve already achieved the result you wanted or manifested this person already, then what you essentially do is you step out of the desperate energy around you right now, and step into the vibrations of accomplishment and abundance.
Now, living in the end result is not play-acting, meaning it’s not setting out an additional dinner or making room in your closet. I know some people recommend that but in my opinion, that just promotes the feeling of lack because you’ve made some space in your closet, and now, it’s empty!
Have your closet full of your stuff but be ready to have it be changed at any moment, that is what living in the end result means. It is more about mimicking the thought process you would have if you were living in the end result rather than mimicking the external and physical things.
Avoid Focusing On Them Too Much
Again, it has to do with living in the end result. Just think about it, if you were in a relationship with this person right now, would you be checking their social media all the time? Would you be stalking them on Instagram 24/7? No, right.
Then you shouldn’t do it now as well. If you believe in the conscious use of the law of attraction, then you should understand that you’re attracting more lack by focusing on them too much.
Avoid staking them. You might feel the urge to do so because that is probably the only way for you to see them right now but refrain from doing so because that isn’t something you would do if you were living in the end result.
If you were with this person, you’d probably be super excited about the things going on in your life. You’d be motivated, happy, and definitely not stalking them or thinking about them all day.
What you want to do is feel the same emotions right now even if you’re not with them currently because that is the only way you can harness the power of conscious use of the law of attraction and use that to actually attract this person into your life.
Focus on Yourself & Love Yourself
No matter how much you love this person, how much you care about them, and how much you wanna be with them. The most important part of your life should always be you.
You should always focus on yourself, and make yourself the most important part of your world. If you don’t think you deserve importance, then the other person will obviously feel the same.
Love and accept yourself as who you are first, let your personality shine bright, and others will also start accepting you for who you are.
In regards to this person, don’t think that you have to conform to something in order to be with them. So for example, if they say they like this particular sport, and you don’t like it, then you must not change your opinion just to agree with them. Or if they are a morning person, then you don’t need to buy a book on how to wake up early. That’s not how it works.
You both can be individual people with your own individual likes and dislikes and still make a great couple.
Don’t Force it
Finally, as a bonus tip, don’t try to force things to try to happen as it will only keep you in lack.
Never lose your self-worth in the pursuit of getting with them. If they can’t see your worth, then it’s their loss and it's ok to say this. You want to hold yourself in the highest regard. This is the only way it works.
If you find yourself waiting around, move ahead instead. This is where your manifestation exists.